I find it fitting that my second experience studying and travelling abroad as a University student wraps up with a week in South Korea. It serves as an enjoyable bookend to this summer’s worth of adventures. Almost two years ago I began my first study abroad experience, attending Yeungnam University in South Korea for a semester. Now here I am returning to visit friends that I made during that time. My second time being in Korea has afforded me new experiences that I didn’t get to enjoy during my previous gallivant here. Additionally I have also been able to share with my friend and travelling companion, Alex, many of the facets of Korean life that I enjoyed nearly two years ago.
Our time in South Korea began with a leap of faith, more or less. That being, we landed in Seoul, but had to navigate on our own to Daegu where we would be greeted by my friend Jacob, my old roommate from Yeungnam University. Jacob is actually a Norwegian, but he is pursuing his master’s in Korea and has been living here for some time now. Relying on my dusty Korean speaking skills we were able to successfully navigate from the airport to Seoul Station, the primary train station in the city, as well as both get lunch and our train tickets to Daegu. These Korean speaking interactions went much better than I had expected them to go actually, which was a pleasant surprise after being tired from travelling all the way from the north island of New Zealand.
The train ride southbound through the Korean peninsula was a relaxing few hours. Observing the Korean countryside from a train is simultaneously a monotonousness, but calming experience. The landscape is almost entirely mountainous, old mountains too. Think Appalachia, but more weathered. They’re short and covered entirely with trees, hardly ever reaching more than a couple hundred meters in height. Slowly we approached Daegu and hopped off our train with luggage in hand, eager to see Jacob for the first time since our exchange student days. Alex and I made our way to the main lobby of the station and it wasn’t difficult to spot Jacob. A tall, blonde haired, Norwegian boy is difficult to miss in Korea.
After our reunion we made our way into the city towards Jacob’s place but we had a stop to make before arriving there. In the Daegu suburb of Gyeongsan there is, what I would consider, the greatest burger joint in the world, Rolling Patties. Jacob and I fell in love with this place when we went to Yeungnam and I obviously had to get my fix. Rolling Patties is a small restaurant, operated entirely by one man, and he recognized me immediately as I came in. The whole moment was quite heart warming. Alex was still skeptical of my claim that this place has the best burgers on the planet but he would soon be a believer like Jacob and I. Once our food was prepared, we brought it to the our table and dug in. Let me say that hardly ever before have I missed a taste like I did with these burgers. It was definitely the welcome to Korea that I needed.
The remainder of our first evening was uneventful as we arrived late in the evening. But we already had plans for tomorrow. When the morning came, Jacob had Korean class until the early afternoon, so I took this time to show Alex around Yeungnam University’s campus, pointing out to him where my classes were and some of the cool hidden spots it had to offer. Once Jacob was finished with classes we headed out for lunch to get some Dak Galbi, an amazing dish of chicken, potatoes, carrots, noodles, and cheese, served in a large communal dish. One of my favorite things about Korea is definitely the food. Afterwards we headed to a PC Bang (pronounced with a short O sound). These are essentially gaming cafes with high-speed internet, high end computers, complete with mechanical keyboards, comfy chairs, and headsets. These places are pretty cheap, only charging about 50 cents per hour. We were going to kill some time here getting our game on until later that evening when we would be meeting some more friends for dinner and drinks.
When the time came, we left the PC Bang and made our way to a Korean BBQ house for another round of delicious local food. At Korean BBQ, all the food is brought to you uncooked, and you have to prepare it at the grill which is at your table. This allows you to experiment with different combinations of food and eat at your own pace rather than all the food being brought out at once. Here we also had the night’s first round of Soju, or Korean rice wine. This was another thing I wanted to show Alex because it always effects you in an unexpected way. A slow onset with a warm bubbliness when it finally sets in. Don’t underestimate its low proof though, if you aren’t careful it can go from being a fun night out with friends to a horrible spinning nightmare, but that’s a story for another time.

The night continued and I met friends both old and new, having a wonderful time back in the country that changed my life in immeasurable ways. The next day Jacob would be going to a Psy concert, yes, that Psy, Gangnam Style Psy. So Alex and I would be left to our own devices. Fortunately though, I had another friend I was in contact with, a Korean named Yeung Jin. We met up and got lunch and discussed what we would do that day. I expressed my interest to go hiking in some of the mountains surrounding Gyeongsan. He was happy to help us and after lunch we parted ways briefly so that he could go get his car and girlfriend, then he picked us up to go hiking.
We got to the base of Seung Am San, the mountain we would be hiking, and we started walking. The path was fairly steep, however there was a wooden path beneath our feet. Hiking in Korea takes on a different cultural significance than in the States. Hiking a mountain is a past-time for all ages. You will see many elderly people casually hiking and sometimes even whole families. The wooden path wasn’t a necessity, rather it was a public courtesy. We made it to the half way point where the path diverged in several directions, naturally though we chose the path leading to the peak. Here, the path became much more craggy, at some points it was nothing but exposed rock. We eventually made it to the peak and stopped to enjoy the view, as well as take a few group pictures. After the hike, the four of us went out for some dinner and relaxed before the evening was finished.
While in Korea I wanted to go do Busan for a day or two to enjoy the coastal city and hop in the ocean. Going down there we weren’t able to secure an Airbnb to stay at. This didn’t dampen our spirits though. We had another idea. In Korea, there are these facilities called jjimjilbangs, which are essentially elaborate bath-houses which you can sleep at. This was one such experience that I wanted to have while in Korea before, but was not able to make happen. With our housing situation determined, we set off into the city and explored. Our first stop was at Gamcheon Culture Village, this location is iconic for its plethora of colorful buildings. Each house having a different hue to it, creating an architectural collage of color. Unfortunately it was raining when we arrived and a fog had set in so we had to find an escape from the downpour. We stopped at a small, hole-in-the-wall, coffee shop and waited for the fog to clear and the rain to stop.

Eventually they both did and we walked out into the village. We explored this area for a good hour or so before going downtown for the evening. Once downtown we enjoyed some cheap drinks and food, enjoying the scenery of the colorful city. As night approached, the three of us made our way to the jjimjilbang. Arriving we discovered it was only about $10 each for a 12 hour stay, exceptionally cheaper than staying at an Airbnb. We relaxed in the saunas and hot bathes for a couple hours before retreating upstairs to the quiet sleeping chambers. When morning arrived, we relaxed a bit longer in the saunas and even used the cold bath which was empty the previous night. These jjimjilbangs are an interesting experience, public bath-houses in general have always piqued my interest and I am sad that they are not more popular in the United States. Probably something to do with our shy sensibilities.

After leaving the jjimjilbang we went to the shoreline to take a dip in the ocean. Last time I was in Busan it was late fall so the temperature was much too cold to get in the water. July is a perfect time to go to the beach though. Arriving at the beach we saw that it was crowded with patrons. We found a piece of unoccupied sand and after laying out our towels, we ran and dove into the surf. The water was nice and cooling, definitely a much needed escape from the hot, muggy air surrounding us. We swam around and jumped through the waves for about an hour before returning to the shore. This is where Alex and I had the amazing idea of burying ourselves in the sand. We were only able to get to our waists before Jacob had to step in and finish the job.

Eventually we returned to Daegu for the night. The next day Alex and I would be travelling back up to Seoul. On our last evening in Daegu the three of us went downtown and simply walked around, enjoying the city and listening to the public street performers. In the morning we packed our bags and waited for Jacob to get out of his class. We wanted to get lunch together before Alex and my train departed. After enjoying our meal we made our way to the train station. Parting ways with Jacob so soon after seeing him for the first time in almost two years was definitely bittersweet. I was exited to continue on with my journey but saddened to leave my friend again. I’m sure our paths will cross again in the future. Perhaps I will even visit him in Norway, or he will come to my part of the States. Regardless I eagerly await seeing him in the future.
Arriving in Seoul, Alex and I planned to get dinner with my friend Mijin who I met down at Yeungnam, but who was now living in Seoul. Mijin is a sweet and jubilant Korean girl who was actually Jacob’s buddy as part of the university’s buddy system for foreign students. We spent dinner catching up and talking about what was new in our lives and what we’ve done in the last couple years. There was plenty of laughter and good times but eventually we had to go our own ways that evening and exchanged parting words. For the remainder of the evening Alex and I explored Hongdae, the neighborhood we were staying in. In our wandering we walked through bustling streets, observing street performers and taking in Seoul’s shimmering neon atmosphere.
The next day I woke with excitement. It was the day I would be receiving my first tattoo. Leaving the US back in early June I knew I wanted to do something to commemorate this adventure, I just wasn’t sure if I wanted it to be a tattoo or a piercing. This tattoo wouldn’t be done by just any artist too. Shortly before leaving the Omaha, I was told by a dear friend of mine about Miki Kim. She was a world travelling tattoo artist whose surreal pieces are as unique as they are mind bending. While in Australia I had actually heard that she would be working out of Melbourne and I wanted to try and get the tattoo done there, however I was unable to manage that trip and was a bit disheartened. It was then that I found out Miki Kim would be travelling to Seoul next and her time there would overlap with mine. Again, another instance of pure serendipity.
Arriving at the tattoo shop I wasn’t as nervous as I was expecting to be. I took that as a good sign though and was excited to be there. After waiting for a few minutes the stencil was ready and stamped onto my back where I would be receiving the ink. Slowly the stencil dried and I was asked to lie down on the bench. I had a big smile on my face and was eager to add this to my list of experiences. When the process began, the first thing I noticed was that the pain was nowhere near what I was anticipating, but I think I knew that was going to be the case anyway. As the tattoo gun droned on though I noticed that at some points I would lose the sensation of pain entirely as it was drowned out by the gun’s vibrations. At other points though the pain would become quite intense as it felt exceptionally similar to a cat’s claw digging into my skin. I was relieved when the piece was finally done, towards the end of the process I was starting to lose hope in my tolerance for pain.
My last day in Seoul was finally here and I had a couple more things to cross of the list. First things first, I wanted to show Alex this amazing coffee shop I discovered last time I was here which served delicious waffles and ice cream in addition to having lovely wooden architecture. I was nervous while searching for it as I couldn’t remember its name and had to rely entirely on memory to find it. Once we exited the metro station though, my memories all came back to me and I knew exactly where to go, taking Alex right to it without any navigational error. Here we relaxed and enjoyed the amazing food and warm scenery. Places like this are few and far between and deserve to be remembered and cherished when discovered. The small, unknown, and off the beaten path places that you only arrive at if you know they are there, or in my lucky case, happen to stumble upon wandering aimlessly through the city in search of anything which would pique my interest.
The latter half of the day was spent hanging out with my old Korean roommate Seung Won. Hearing that I would be in the area, he invited Alex and I out to dinner and to visit an exhibit being hosted downtown. For dinner I was finally able to get the bibimbab that I had been craving the whole week prior. Afterwards we walked to the exhibit which was about Paul Smith, an international fashion designer. Though I am not one particularly interested in fashion, I can always appreciate art forms, being an aspiring artist myself in the world of music. The plight of all artists is similar and we are all comrades in the pursuit of our passions. Walking through the display was a treat for the eyes. Much of Paul Smith’s work is colorful, yet reserved. In addition the clothing, there was much on display from his personal art collection. The whole time Seung Won and I caught up and discussed the varying pieces we saw.
International friends are an interesting thing. Without the everyday interactions of friends from home, you would imagine that the bonds of friendship wouldn’t be as sincere, but those bonds are still there, and just as strong. We should all be so lucky to have friends around the world. It would probably make the world a better place. If this summer of international travel has taught me anything, its that you should always keep your eye out for friends and keep old ones close. Without friends new and old, this summer would not have been what it was. Complimentary to this, the notion of openness and spontaneity have also been reinforced. In being open to new people and being spontaneous, I have been able to make many new friends from around the world like I was able to in Korea those years ago. It is my hope that soon in my life I will be able to call upon these newly forged friendships to create new life experiences and continue creating a life worth remembering.
































































































































































